Christian Blog Crawl

Sooo...I saw a "blog crawl" on someone's blog, and, while I was not exactly sure what that was, the idea seemed excellent to me. What a neat way to share thoughts and words and lessons and ideas from and with other people on a regular basis. My mind started working, I came up with my own idea of what this could be, and I created the Christian Blog Crawl.

Participating blogs are based on Christian values but do not need to focus on any specific subject. As a matter of fact, we aim for a variety of types of blogs. Please check out all of the blogs listed below, and feel free to return to read and comment on them as often as you would like.

RobSorbo.com

http://robsorbo.com

Purposeful Pathway

http://purposefulpathway.com/

Find Your PATH, Live with PURPOSE, Walk God's Way

Faith Notes

http://www.faithnotes-dottie.blogspot.com/

Thoughts on faith, family, life, marriage, reading, writing.

A House Upon the Rock

http://ahouseupontherock.com/

To encourage you as you build your house upon The Rock.

Brvan

http://brvan.com

Faith. Family. Writing.

Certain Christian

http://www.certainchristian.com/

One Man and His Journey with God

My Money Mission

http://www.mymoneymission.com/

http://www.mymoneymissiononline.com/

Taber's Truths

http://www.taberstruths.com/

Spiritual insights for the common man.

Homeschool Circus

http://upatdawnreadytowork.blogspot.com

What else do you call a homeschooling house of six?

Mike Print

http://mikegprint.wordpress.com/

Thoughts on life and faith.

Apologetics Guy

http://www.apologeticsguy.com/blog/

Words from DUG

http://wordsfromdug.blogspot.com/

"A bit of faith, a bit of inspiration, a bit of humor, a bit of the every day."

If you would like to join us on the Christian Blog Crawl list, ask! We commit to posting the above badge on our blog with a link to this page for the list, we commit to reading one another's blogs and commenting on posts, we commit to sharing about CBC occasionally on our own blogs to try to share our readership with one another, and we commit to being encouraging over all. If a blog contains anything that may be questionable or not in line with the Word of God, then please do not ask to be added. Thank you, and happy blogging!

NOTE: Each blog is of the individual blog writer's thoughts. While I am a Conservative Christian, you may find something a bit more liberal posted among these blogs. (If I see it, you may very well see my comment.) While we aim to spread the message of Christ's love by our messages and our actions, we also can learn from other's points of view.

Are You Offended?

Yes, I know. I told you that you could look for this post over the weekend, and you did not see it. Sometimes things in life do not work out on our schedules, and that is okay.

If you have been following my blog, you know that I am welcoming a guest blogger for the topic of being offended. I am excited to share his post with you because when it comes to the right attitude about being offended, he has it. Enjoy!

-DUG

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There is an awful lot of offensive behavior going on these days. There must be. Just look at all of the people that are being offended. It seems that everyday you can read a story about someone who was offended. It's terrible.

Let me, just for the record, send a message to all of those offended people:

Get over it!

Seriously, what does it actually mean to be offended? I looked it up. The first meaning pertains to sin or a violation of the moral code. The rest of the definitions were centered around doing something that was unpleasant. I noticed two key things in the actual definition of the word. First, to "offend" is primarily an action of the person undertaking the behavior. I have to DO something before you can be offended. Second, the behavior in question is subjective.

What does that mean? It means that my actions are the catalyst for being offended, but whether or not they are offensive is up to someone else.

I can do nothing to offend you. You can do nothing to offend me. The behavior, or words, or smells, or actions are only offensive if someone deems them to be offensive.

But, you say, people often do things with the intention of being offensive.

They certainly do...and the more offended you become by those people, the more power that you give to them.

Think of the most offensive thing someone could say to you.

Do you have it. It is already making you a little uncomfortable?

Now pretend I just said it to you. Are you offended? I only said it because you thought it was offensive.

If you are thinking clearly, there is no way you would give me or anyone else the power to control you that way. When someone says that they are offended, look at the offense in question. It will tell you more about that person than years of small talk.

The next time that you are about to cry out that you are offended, here is what you can do.

First, I have found that most people are not intentionally offensive. When you put that filter on most behavior, and realize that the interpretation of offensive is purely yours, the offense should go away.

Next, look at the source of the offense. In other words look at the offender. Was the offender trying to offend you? Most of the time, you will realize that the offender was not even trying to offend you. Instead, it was you who decided that the behavior was offensive. Then it was you who decided that it should make you angry (or sad or disappointed).

Now, here is the critical part. Do not let that "offense" have any power over you. Sure, you could nicely point out that the action is unpleasant and makes you uncomfortable. You could even draw a line in the sand and refuse to be around someone who commits that offense. Remember, though, that the very nature of offense is that it is your subjective judgement of someone else's behavior.

So...before you go and get all offended, take a look at your behavior. Who are you offending?

Hint, you are at least offending people who are offended by people who get offended.

Written by: "R" HUG